Yesterday, after my fun-filled trip the the sewing and vacuum center (Side note: why are sewing machines and vacuum cleaners sold in the same store?), I stopped at the fabric shop and, while in line, actually spoke to the four other women around me.
The first lady had an app on her phone for coupons from the store, so did the third lady and so did I. The second lady was beside herself with envy and she asked each of us if we were going to use our coupons. We all were. I could see her sizing up each of our purchases to determine whether they were coupon-worthy. I don't care if I'm spending $ 1.29, I'm using my 50% off coupon.
The third lady was buying fabric to line a purse that she had knitted for her daughter. It was beautiful. Nothing that I would carry, but very pretty. I always want to ask people what they're making at the craft store. The ladies at the cutting counter always ask and I always have to say "shotgun cleaning rod bags..." and then I have to explain that whole thing and no one is impressed. I want to say "Oh - I'm re-covering my ottoman, I do it every Spring", or "Oh this? It's just a three piece suit I'm throwing together for my husband".
The three of us with smart phones were explaining to the second lady that there are all kinds of apps for coupons. She has just recently started using a smart phone. Later, the second lady thanked us for the information and the third lady wished me luck on my drive home. For some reason people think the trip from Portland back down into the Willamette Valley is pretty treacherous. It can be slow at times, but since I do it several times each week, I don't really notice unless there is a 32 car pile-up.
I will talk to anyone and everyone. I meet all kinds of interesting people and sometimes I meet people who wonder why I'm talking to them. I always want to ask questions and Brown Eyed Man just about dies when he's with me and I start talking to strangers. You can find out a lot of people, or places just by talking with strangers. Sometimes it takes them a while to warm up to you. Sometimes they don't. Sometimes you look like a kook. Over all people like to talk about themselves so as long as you're asking questions about them, they are happy to talk.
I know you came here today to learn the art of getting to know people.
j
Tuesday, April 30, 2013
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